How to BECOME a child of God

John 1:12-13


"But as many as received Him, to them he gave power to become Children of God, to those who believe in His name: who were begotten not of blood, nor of the flesh, nor the will of man, but of God." [John 1:12-13]


[Our parish is being encouraged to read the Gospel of Jon during the Pentecostarion period. If we read 1/2 chapter a day plus the remainder (about 2 chapters) the day before Ascension, we will finish in forty days. On Bright Monday, the suggested reading is John 1:1-28, on Tuesday the rest of the chapter (through verse 51)]



The following is a prayerful meditation on some part of the first "assigned" reading. REMEMBER - read the scripture to apply it to yourself. This is all important. There may be parts you do not understand, but there will always be something that touches your heart if you read it prayerfully.


If you have comments about this verse or another in this selection (John 1:1-28), please add them in the comments, or email them to me.





In one sense we can  say we are not children of God,  but that we are becoming children of God. Of course, the Theologian explicitly states that we are given the power to "become". This implies we are not finished with the transition from being a child of the world (and the Devil) to a child of God. This is a continual, stepwise process.


So the question is at what point would we become fully children of God and what is this process. To be a child of God is to be *fully* human,  as Jesus Christ is human. This is a process,  and it takes place over our lifetime.  We are constantly *becoming*. This is not a foregone conclusion. We have the power,  give by Christ through baptism,  and we then must "take our bed and be walking".


If we "receive" Christ, we must obey Him. We also must learn about him ("take My yoke upon me and learn of me..."). This learning is not in the head, but in the heart. Our wonderful task is to become like the God-man Jesus Christ, and follow his example, which is well laid out in the Gospels and the lives of his beloved ones, the Saints.


The Theologian states that those born of God are not born of:


blood - I take this to mean by human birth.


the flesh - This may also be human birth, but I take it to mean that the ways of the flesh - our passions, bad priorities, and earthbound desires and practices will never lead us to heaven.


nor the will of man - I take this to mean that MY WILL will never lead me to God. I must give my will to God, and so His will if I am to become a child of God. My will does not work, it is unreliable, and dangerous. God's will is perfect, and leads to perfect peace.


May God grant that we receive Him in every way and become fully children of God!



Priest Seraphim Holland 2013     St Nicholas Russian Orthodox Church, McKinney, Texas


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