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“I am building a temple!”

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

The following is taken from the excellent BLOG by Fr Milovan. He sometimes gleans things from other sources, and I often glean things from him!

I am building a temple!

January 29, 2009

H/T: ????????, Archbishop Ignaty’s blog

Three builders were carrying the same exact work.

-What do you do? -each of them was asked.

-I carry stones, said the first one.

-I’m earning a living, responded the second one.

But the third one replied: “I am building a temple”.

http://frmilovan.wordpress.com/2009/01/29/i-am-building-a-temple/

 

My comments.

A Christian should live his life with this sentiment. This “parable” is an excellent mnemonic device which will help us to remember how we should consider EVERYTHING we do (unless it is a sin of course, in that case, we are breaking down a temple!)

When my children were small, in a simpler time, as we sat downstairs on our rug made of bear hair, we would read aloud things from the scriptures, or the Prologue, and talk about what we read. These were very sweet times. There are many days when I ache to go back to them. I believe we were building a temple, or as we sometimes put it, adding gems to our crown, or bricks to our wall.

We told our children that every time they did something good, they were putting another precious stone in their “crown”, or, another brick in the wall of their “mansion” that they would have in heaven. Do you know the scriptures we referred to many times? They are true, and are about the only thing that matters and lasts in this life.

In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. (John 14:2)

 

Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:  (20)  But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:  (21)  For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. (Mat 6:19-21)

This is no children’s tale calculated to make them behave. It is the pure, unvarnished truth!  How many times, our children would do something good, and we would tell them that they have another diamond in their crown, and they would beam with joy!

What my children did not know when we were sitting on that bear rug was that I was describing for them a summary of my philosophy of life.

Nothing is mundane! Everything we do must be for Christ! Only the things we do for Christ will last.

I confess that much in my life feels mundane; Much of life feels like vast amounts of "space" between short significant moments. This is an illusion, and a very powerful one, because I find myself feeling mundane at various moments through the day. Why is this? It is all because of my attitude. It is because I do not have the wisdom to see things as they really are, because of blindness and stupidity caused by my sinfulness.

Why do I write this self indictment? Because one of the great graces given to a priest in his ordination is to understand human nature and feel his own weakness deeply, and recognize the tragedy of the human condition in himself and those he loves, his flock. We are mundane because we live in a mundane way. So many things we do could be supernatural, if we would think in the right way!

What is mundane in your life?  Perhaps it is doing the dishes that you cannot remember dirtying, taking care of the kids, working at the office, prayers that are said with little feeling and much distraction.

This is an illusion. This parable reminds us about the illusion. In time, with God’s help, we will not need such mnemonic devices to be good - we will be changed and see the truth in every moment, bit in the meantime, as we get better, perhaps you will use this parable to remind yourself that nothing in  your life is mundane – in EVERYTHING, you are building a temple.

Priest Seraphim

 

The relationship between the inner and outer man.

Tuesday, September 30th, 2008








"Inner disposition changes outward nature, and acts of moral choice alter the way that nature functions."

St. Gregory of Sinai.


Do these words seem familiar? I certainly hope that they "ring a bell" in the minds of those in my small flock. I have said basically these words to most of you. I saw this quote in an email I received recently and wanted to share them with everyone. St Gregory says it with more eloquence I ever have.

What it gets down to is this. We have a problem. We think things we should not think, and these thoughts cause us to do things we should not do, or not do things we should do. Whichever we change, whether the inner (thoughts and overall inner disposition) or outer (our acts), if we attempt to change with INTENT, the one will help shape the other.

Let’s have a practical example. Life is not theoretical, it is actual and real.

Suppose that someone at work is rude, obnoxious, and "rubs you the wrong way". You do not like this person. Others do not like this person. You find yourself returning rudeness for rudeness, and going right along with the negative talk when the subject of this person comes up. All of these actions are wrong, but they are hard to stop. When you see this person, IMMEDIATE negative thoughts enter into your mind, and you can feel their coldness and darkness.

Thoughts are so very hard to control. Actions may be easier in this case. You can make up your mind to say "good morning" or offer to bring coffee if you are going to get a cup. You can FORCE yourself to ACT in a civil way. Some have argued with me before that this seems to be hypocritical. It is only hypocritical if you "act nice" because of a hidden agenda to benefit yourself. You are a Christian; there is no "hidden agenda". You are supposed to love everyone, equally, as God does. This is not a secret agenda; you have already declared it by stating that you “Believe in one God the Father almighty…”

It WILL happen, if you continue to force yourself to change your outward actions, your inward thoughts will change. Then your actions and thoughts will be in perfect harmony. This is one aspect of the "peace" which Jesus Christ blessed his Apostles, and us with.

If you look closely, you will see multiple opportunities to change the inner man or the outer man, and therefore make progress in changing the entire man.

Any questions? Let’s talk.

Now, I am feeling lazy today. Yesterday was a long day. I do not want to cut the church grass today, since it is tall enough to hide a deer. I am off to go do it now. I will still be lazy after I finish, but I will have done SOMETHING. In time, I will get better.

 

 

 

 

 

A White Gown

Thursday, September 25th, 2008


“Father, why are you sad?” - a pupil asked the elder.

“People forgotten how to see truth. Three times I showed three of you white clothes with a dirty stain. And I asked, ‘What do you see?’ ‘A dirty stain,’ said every one of you. And no one thought to answer - a white gown. “

 

From http://frmilovan.wordpress.com/2008/09/23/a-white-gown/

 


I try very often to impress upon my flock the importance of recognizing their progress. If we never feel we are making ANY progress at all, we often fall into deep despair. We may be like these white gowns, and have dirty stains, but the gowns are white! We must recognize the grace of God working in us. This is what I thought of when I read this little proverb about white gowns.

 

What did YOU think? Please comment.